Isn't it Ironic

Have you ever kept something (a very big something) from someone that’s very close to you because you were so afraid of what they’d think of you? Well I have. And I knew perfectly well that this person would not care at all or judge me in the least bit, but I was still scared to death to admit the truth. I never actually flat out lied, but if faced with the situation to, I most likely would have. But why? I could trust this person with my life, my deepest darkest secrets, or simply my insecurities; why would I not tell her this? And so when (under the influence of something greater than my own will power and inhibitions) I finally blurted the entire story out, she surprised me with one of her own. We are so much alike and were both frightened to admit it to each other. I just found it incredibly amusing (definitely at the time of this epiphany but also the next day when thinking about it clearly.) Both of us were keeping the exact same secret from one another.

The irony in life will never fail to amaze me.

As Alanis Morissette puts it:
It's like rain on your wedding day
It's a free ride when you've already paid
It's the good advice that you just didn't take
Who would've thought... it figures
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Monday, December 22nd 2008

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